{"id":3980,"date":"2021-05-29T03:50:17","date_gmt":"2021-05-29T03:50:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/enorcerna.com\/wiki\/definition\/flatter\/"},"modified":"2021-05-29T03:50:17","modified_gmt":"2021-05-29T03:50:17","slug":"flatter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/enorcerna.com\/wiki\/definition\/flatter\/","title":{"rendered":"flatter"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/enorcerna.com\/wiki\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/adular.jpg\" alt=\"Flatter\" width=\"295\" height=\"199\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-37201\" align=\"right\"\/>The Latin term <strong>adul\u0101ri<\/strong> came to our <strong>language<\/strong> What <strong>flatter<\/strong>.  The concept refers to <strong>say or do what is thought to satisfy or sympathize with another person<\/strong>.  For example: <em>\"In public, it is always convenient to flatter the boss and not mark his mistakes\"<\/em>, <em>\"If you think that, because you are going to flatter me all day, I will forgive you, you are very wrong\"<\/em>, <em>\"There are leaders who want to grow in government to flatter the president\"<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>It can be said that flattering consists of <strong>praise for a particular purpose<\/strong>.  The subject who flatters another does not do so in a sincere or disinterested way, but exaggerates or invents his admiration to make the flattered individual happy with him.  So, expect to get <strong>favors<\/strong> On your part.<\/p>\n<p>Flattery usually appears in areas where there are people who display a certain <strong>can<\/strong>.  Rulers are often flattered with the intention of making a profit.  A mayor's secretary may flatter his boss constantly in the hope of being appointed to some higher-paying position, to name one possibility.<\/p>\n<p>Those who receive flattery may react differently.  There are <strong>people<\/strong> who choose humility and who do not enjoy excessive flattery;  others, on the other hand, promote a cult of personality and pretend to hear praise and praise constantly.  These latter subjects surround themselves with sycophants.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it is difficult to find the difference between <em>flatter<\/em> Y <em>flatter<\/em>;  this last verb, which is considered one of the synonyms of <em>flatter<\/em>It can also be defined as \"showing affection to a person through actions or words that please him\", \"satisfying someone through our actions\".  As can be seen, a <strong>flattery<\/strong> it does not always hide the intention to satisfy certain personal interests;  on the contrary, it may be an absolutely genuine display of admiration.<\/p>\n<p>Flattering can be a very dangerous action if the recipient of the comments is a child;  This happens in many families and in the school setting, especially with individuals of great <strong>ability<\/strong> intellectual.  When parents and teachers flatter a child they consider special, they fail to strengthen their confidence, but instead turn them into a proud being and distort their perception of the outside world, since they make them believe that their qualities have no limits, that everyone should surrender at his feet.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/enorcerna.com\/wiki\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Adular.jpg\" alt=\"Flatter\" width=\"240\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-46186\"\/>It is important to distinguish between <strong>genuine appreciation<\/strong>, which develops with <strong>sincerity<\/strong> to express appreciation to others, and the act of flattery, which is selfish since it responds to the interests of the flatterer.<\/p>\n<p>Recognizing the people around us their virtues and showing admiration for them is an act of <strong>modesty<\/strong> that enriches both parties.  Contrary to envy, it consists in understanding that each one has their own talents and defects, and that differences should not be a reason for confrontations but for union to become stronger.<\/p>\n<p>As unfortunate as it is, it is not very common to find this degree of sincerity in <strong>human relations<\/strong>But flattery is much more prevalent.  Furthermore, it is sometimes difficult to distinguish between the two actions, since <strong>the line that divides them can become very thin<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>One of the characteristics that we must take into account to recognize the flattery of genuine appreciation is intonation: since when flattering we do not express ourselves sincerely, it is possible to appreciate a <strong>joint<\/strong> forced, which does not seem to be in tune with the words we speak;  On the contrary, when expressing our admiration for someone spontaneously, we do not voluntarily seek the right intonation, but rather it comes naturally according to our culture.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"kk-star-ratings kksr-auto kksr-align-center kksr-valign-bottom\"\n    data-payload='{&quot;align&quot;:&quot;center&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:&quot;3980&quot;,&quot;slug&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;valign&quot;:&quot;bottom&quot;,&quot;ignore&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;reference&quot;:&quot;auto&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;count&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;legendonly&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;readonly&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;score&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;starsonly&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;best&quot;:&quot;5&quot;,&quot;gap&quot;:&quot;4&quot;,&quot;greet&quot;:&quot;Rate this post&quot;,&quot;legend&quot;:&quot;0\\\/5 - (0 votes)&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;24&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;flatter&quot;,&quot;width&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;_legend&quot;:&quot;{score}\\\/{best} - ({count} {votes})&quot;,&quot;font_factor&quot;:&quot;1.25&quot;}'>\n            \n<div class=\"kksr-stars\">\n    \n<div class=\"kksr-stars-inactive\">\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"1\" style=\"padding-right: 4px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"2\" style=\"padding-right: 4px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"3\" style=\"padding-right: 4px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"4\" style=\"padding-right: 4px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"5\" style=\"padding-right: 4px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n    \n<div class=\"kksr-stars-active\" style=\"width: 0px;\">\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 4px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 4px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 4px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 4px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 4px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n                \n\n<div class=\"kksr-legend\" style=\"font-size: 19.2px;\">\n            <span class=\"kksr-muted\">Rate this post<\/span>\n    <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Latin term adul\u0101ri came to our language What flatter. 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